I'm trying to find someone who will accept me and my kids. Question from Betty: What attracts a mature male to a mature woman once the hormones have stopped?PS: He likes her wisdom, her energy, her self-knowledge, her acceptance of him.And quite a few men want somebody who has had life experience like their own. » Question from Catherine: I'm too busy to actively date.
Question from Lorraine from Philly: How can I date younger men without being labeled a "cougar." PS: I'm not going to label you a cougar!
So if you really like this guy, at some point you should open up more of your world to him. But I think most of the things that apply to heterosexual relationships have resonance with same-sex relationships.
Question from Fran in San Fran: You don't mention a lot about homosexuals dating. Of course there are some differences, and I would be sensitive to those differences. Join singles groups that do the activities you love.
There's always a little bit of time if you look for it and prioritize.
For example, clean up the house every third day instead of the second. Once you prioritize, other things just have to come second and third.