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For example, in 2014 a new law banned certain acts from being depicted and uploaded by British pornography producers.This creates something of a paradox: performing an explicitly pornographic act via a webcam carries no repercussions, but if the same show is recorded and uploaded, the performer can be liable to a fine of up to £10,000.Another typically vocal group which has remained strangely quiet on this topic is radical feminists.The majority of performers are women, but there are also male and transgender performers.On sites such as Chaturbate and My Free Cams, a tipping system operates in public chatrooms.
Since the birth of the feminist movement in the 19th century, women involved in sex work have been portrayed as victims in need of rescue.