It’s like if you went to a car lot and the salesperson said, “Hey, do you want to buy a car…from ME? ” When asking a woman out, it’s better to think one date at a time.This isn’t a commitment to “go steady,” this is you getting to know each other better a couple hours at a time.It sounds silly, but lots of guys approach women in bars and ask for their number or ask them out right on the spot.That may work for guys who don’t care about personal chemistry. Even if you’re SURE you’re in love before speaking two words to her, give it a chance to percolate by talking to her.And just as often, a great outfit can be torpedoed by wearing crappy shoes. If you go in there expecting she’ll say no, she probably will. Literally imagine what it will be like when she says yes.
If you’re asking a woman out, you want to make sure your appearance is in top form.If your body language and tone of voice say “You’re so much better than me, I’m a loser,” she might just believe it.Some guys understand this but take it too far—into swagger mode—and they come across like arrogant players.Often, successfully asking a woman out comes down to that unquantifiable thing: mojo. That said, there are a few guidelines that can increase your odds of success when asking a woman out on a date: Don’t get too many steps ahead of yourself.You should be focusing on the moment and not flashing forward in your mind to a movie-montage of the love affair you’re going to have.
If you approach her in saggy sweatpants and a nappy old t-shirt, I’m not saying it’s a definite no, but you’re not helping your chances. Now back to the shoes: notice when you’re wearing a nice outfit, a woman’s eyes will go to your shoes.