123: have sex anally, vaginally and orally420: smoke marijuana and have sexathl: athleticbb: bareback (sex, usually anal, without a condom)bbw-: big, beautiful womanbf: boyfriendbj: blow jobbttm: bottomc: cock (ex.8C= 8 inch penis)c2c: cam to cam or cock to cock Crystal: crystal methd/d or ddf: drug and disease freediscrete: sex that is kept secret, no strings attacheddl: down low, similar to discretedwm: dominant white maleff: fuck friendsgf: girlfriendgl: good lookinghead: oral sexhj: hand jobhwp-: height and weight proportionateiso: in search ofj/o: jack off, masturbate togetherl4: looking forlkn: lookingltr: long term relationshipm4m or, m2m: male for male, male to malembm: married black malemwm: married white maleneg: HIV negative NSA: no strings attachedpnp: party & play, sex with drugs, usually crystal methpoz: HIV positiver/t: real time, sex now, offlinesmth: smooth or hairlesssub: submissivevers: versatile (top or bottom for anal sex)vgl: very good lookingws: watersports (still confused? ) For what it’s worth, we found that men seem to use more acronyms than women, especially on the men seeking men pages in personal ads.So while most people know what a bj is (it’s OK if you don’t), 8C or bbw might be a little more elusive.And, depending on the context (sex chat room versus non-sexual chat), some acronyms might have different meanings.
In the meantime, she looked for a way to absolutely guarantee that her next child would be the daughter she had always dreamed about.
Recently a friend of ours suggested that we write about abbreviations used in personal ads.
Not surprisingly, there are a number of different codes used in online ads, some for soliciting sexual activity while others are used simply as descriptors.
You probably won’t be received well if they are talking about a TV show and you ask who’d like an online sexual encounter. While being familiar with popular abbreviations used online may be helpful in navigating dating sites, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification if you aren’t sure of something.
Language constantly changes and it can be difficult to stay on top of it.
Fifteen weeks later, she asked a colleague at the hospital to sneak in an after-hours ultrasound.