what if he has a dog and wants more and you dont like dogs…..” exit relationship here” KEEP in mind..
In a healthy relationship that is based on love, each party to the relationship needs to concede and be willing to make changes for the other person.
That is a beautiful thing and hats off to the man for establishing his life like that.
But what if you want to live in a loft in a big city and he wants nothing to do with that idea.
never let your needs be bypassed because of somebody else’s choices in life. If the kids are grown and they have their own lives then it should be a non- issue. When dating somebody who is set up to retire in 15-20 years, this can pose a problem if you are both not on the same page.
Dating older is a wonderful thing and I approve 100%.In most situations this is typically the reason for the relationship in the first place…and those relationships end early or are not truly satisfying.Men like to feel needed and they want to be the supporter and women like to be taken care of.Things to keep in mind if you are dating somebody older than you, ( 12 years of age difference) when dating older there are benefits as well as risks.Typically I would write my posts gender neutral, but in this area of interest the statistics show that women are more often in this situation of dating older, as opposed to men.