So, when she says her ex has him for the night, consider it excellent news. The timeline on real-life offspring will likely be age-dependent: Babies have no idea you exist. Show kindness and a semblance of liking kids—but don’t go overboard or kiss her munchkin’s ass. Even with modern fertility science, all tadpoles come with some sort of father.
Note: This doesn’t mean sex will happen at her place. Talk to him as if he were your boss’s wife or a dental assistant. Chances are there will be four parties in this relationship: you, her, her kid—and the Birth Father.
I have found that men who have been married are a bit more structured and familiar with the little things.
They seem to naturally have more of a routine and offer to do things that a lot of men who have never been married would not think to do for another person.
I understood and respected the fact that most men wanted children.
I believe that marriage teaches men responsibility, structure, how to co-define reality, what women want and how to put someone else before themselves.I have also learned that men with kids love much more deeply. For all you single Mom readers, I think dating divorced men with children is a huge plus.I have completely fallen for a guy or two simply by watching him with his kids and the undying love and support he has provided them. Men with kids will understand your schedule, lifestyle, priorities and responsibilities—because they will have a similar life experience.So, whether you are flying solo like me and acquire a beautiful built-in family or you are a single Mom yourself and create your very own Brady Bunch, you are gaining a experience by dating a divorced man who brings a lot to your table.[image: via Lotus Carroll on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?
Men often feel this need after a failed marriage and while entering into a new relationship.