Many women from various ethnic groups see Asian men as less masculine, and women in general prefer a masculine man.
Asian men in America complain that white women don’t find them attractive enough to be dating partners or marriage.
The part that the Asian man is bitter about is not just "White girls don’t want us" but rather "White girls don’t want us, but white guys are all over Asian girls". Sure, not all white guys are into Asian girls, but there are plenty that are.
And yet, how many female Asian porn stars are there? It might not say anything about the wants and desires of the average white woman. Surely those are the equivalent of porno targeted towards women.The more testosterone a man produce the more he will show his emotions of anger, joy, sadness, happiness, etc.The less testosterone a man produces the more he is able to keep his emotions hidden.The reason basically for Asian men being more feminine in physical appearance is because of they produce more estrogen than men of other racial groups.Asian women are more feminine in appearance because they produce more estrogen than other women.
Stop being too shy around women regardless of their ethnic background.