To many, phone sex is an experience that’s more awkward than sexy. But mastering the art of arousing your lover over the phone isn’t hard if you know the little sexy things that make the difference between an uncomfortable conversation and a sexy one.[Read: 13 untold sex secrets you really need to know!] Just so you know, almost always, phone sex isn’t planned ahead.It just happens, as soon as one of you say something naughty over the phone. And aural sex is a form of sexual stimulation where you get turned on by listening to something that arouses you.If you’ve got the time, cancel call waiting before you call your lover up.Or just speak late in the night when you aren’t expecting any calls.As soon as you start whispering, in all probability, your partner too will start emulating your voice and they’d start whispering too *even if they don’t realize it!* Always remember to be patient and make sure both of you have at least an hour of alone time without any interruptions.
[Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas to have a sexually exciting relationship] Just like that, phone sex can give you the much needed variety and the heightened sense of arousal, especially when both of you aren’t around each other.To start off, just lower your voice almost to a whisper and continue talking.If your lover asks you why you’re whispering, just make an excuse or tell them you don’t want to be overheard.You don’t need to tell your partner you want to have phone sex and put pressure on them to initiate a sexy conversation.Just speak normally in a soft, low voice and the rest will follow.
[Read: 20 sexy naughty text messages to initiate phone sex] Why should you have phone sex when you can just have sex instead? If you have sex in the same missionary position for a few years without talking dirty or fantasizing in bed, sex can definitely start to feel like a chore that’s best avoided.