Just because you live across the world (in a different country, time zone, or culture) doesn’t mean you can’t still have a close, loving relationship… After two years of Long Distance Relationships – these are the things that work for me. I noticed that if it has been more than 12 hours, I forgot to tell Ryosuke things about my day. Since we get to chat every day, we rarely Skype for more than an hour at a time.They might not work for you, though; each couple is different. If we only Skyped twice a week, I had a hard time prioritizing what was important and what could be left out. Having a regular Skype schedule has helped me fix my sleep and work schedules.
I grew up in a family where we chatted about our day around the dinner table. [For more, check out: The Four Stages of a Long-Distance Relationship – Surviving the Separation] Certainly, it takes a certain type of person to keep a long distance relationship going. There will be fears, tears, frustrations, and lonely nights.
It takes a certain type of person to keep a long distance relationship going. There will be fears, tears, frustrations, and lonely nights.
You can’t just jump into it – assuming it will be the same as a “normal” relationship and expect everything to work out. But Long Distance Relationships are NOT impossible.
And by “worked for me,” I mean that my husband and I survived the distance; we’re happily married now, living in Japan. Between school, work, friends, and studying – it is hard enough to block out 20 minutes for your favorite trashy reality television show, never mind an hour to chat with your significant other. I have much better time management skills, because the only constant thing in my life are my Skype dates.
He lays out a good way to approach LDRs – regardless of whether you expect to be in an LDR for a couple of months or a couple of years. I’ve noticed as soon as we starting Skype once a day, the number of (and the magnitude of) our fights decreased drastically.
Profiiliteksti Rehellisyys kannattaa Match-jäsenyyden tarkoituksena on, että ihmiset voivat siirtyä pikku hiljaa tapailemaan toisiaan tosielämässä.