Sharing your dislike for a part of your body is not only toxic to your psyche but can be a turnoff to a man who hears you deprecate yourself.
Never forget: beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
If a man believes you've been unfaithful before, he'll trust you less and be prone to being suspicious of you in the future. Also, never mention a girlfriend's infidelity, because your boyfriend may assume that you're collaborating and discussing similar tactics, and open to cheating one day as well. Ask yourself: Is it really important for him to know about the time in your past when you were unfaithful?
His fears about your past unfaithfulness may come back to haunt you on those evenings you're out with your friends, especially if they are men. There is nothing to be gained with such a confession. All of us have insecurities about our bodies because it goes with the territory of being human.
Most men secretly want to believe that you've rarely had sex before them (and if you have, it was probably rather insignificant).
Their arrival into your life will commence a period where you become an insatiable vixen who finally discovers what great sex is all about.
Based on counseling 1,00s of men and women about their dating and love relationships, and 30 years of my own relationship experience, let me share a list of things never to joke about or tell a man you're in a romantic relationship. Even if you're last boyfriend was a lying, cheating scumbag who broke your heart and humiliated you, it does you no good to "throw-up" this information on someone you're having a relationship. Think of some of the positive benefits you received from your past relationship.It raises the obvious question: if he was so horrible why were you with him for such a long time? By communicating what you liked about your relationship you'll appear classy and kind, and by de-emphasizing the negative you'll appear charitable.Don't discuss your negative experiences until you really get to know the other person better. Never tell a man how many other people you've slept with.In fact, don't ever joke about another man having a small penis, even if it's the funny story your girlfriend told you about her "Alice in peter-land" adventure.It will only make your man feel awkward and insecure.
If Shakespeare had written a play about men and women dating and becoming intimate in the year 2015, one of his soliloquys might have been, "To tell the truth... I was just being honest." However, such honesty can damage a relationship in unforeseen ways, doing irreparable damage to it in the process. But are their times when you are better off not answering a new romantic partner's questions or even, not telling the truth (the whole truth and nothing but the truth..help you God)?