If you want to stand a chance against the other guys out there, upload a good quality photo.
Oh, one more extremely important note ñ make sure that you upload a RECENT photo.
Also the kind of e-mails that women strongly respond to are HIGHLY PERSONALIZED, not generic emails based on cut and paste templates. Women like it when a guy takes the time to read her profile.
This shows them that you are interested in them specifically and aren't just some desperate dude looking for sex.
by Jake Vandenhoff If you've tried out a big online dating website like match.com, then you've seen that there really are some hot, quality women on there.
She publishes blogs, travel advice, and itineraries for her clients at Travel Observations.This will be the most important online dating and relationship advice that you read all year. So, from her perspective, why should she spend time on you when there are dozens of guys taking the time to send her real messages every day?Mistake #1: Sending her ‘just’ a wink Most internet dating sites let you send “winks” or “show interest” for free. When that really hot girl gets your wink, she sees a guy that’s not serious about wanting to contact her and too cheap to fork over the membership fee. Mistake #2: Not having a recent QUALITY photo in your profile This one should be easy, but the fact is, most men do not upload their photo. Profiles with photos get 10 times more looks than those without; and profiles with QUALITY photos get 4 times more than profiles with poor photos. When you log on to a dating site and search, don’t you search for women with photos in their profile first? Many women will assume that you have something to hide if you won’t post your photo ñ like maybe your wife.Ask her a question or specifically reference some detail in her profile so that she will know you actually read it and are truly interested in more than just her looks.I once had a coaching student who was fearless in approaching women, which was good, but he wasn’t so hot at not coming off like a creeper. He was just a guy who wanted to stop being alone with “Call of Duty” on Friday nights and be with a girl who liked him. One time he tried to hit on a woman who was having lunch with her co-workers.