And once you do find her, she is sure to blow you away with her charm, wit, poise and intelligence.
Just like any other woman, she too might get some drama and emotions involved at later stage, but it is always under check.
Back when I was in my 40s, younger men would write me online all the time and I'd always say, "Are you looking for a mom? " They just felt younger women were too high maintenance for them and had far too much drama in their lives.
Yes, I'd dated men three to five years younger but it felt like men 10 to 20 years younger were living on a different planet.
This kind of relationship offers a beauty with brains package, i.e. There are a few women, who not only pamper younger men with lots of love and attention, but also shower them with expensive gifts and luxuries.
They are very particular about what they need and know how to get it.
So, getting involved with such a smart woman takes equal amount of effort and intelligence.
Nor would she expect much out of you, nor would want you to expect from her.
Having said that, it is time you begin searching for a cougar by creating a profile on any of the leading cougar sites.
It is a mutually beneficial relationship, in which needs are discussed at the beginning to make clear the intention of the couple.