I wish these readers had written me beforehand because this is often the worst approach to take (at least from this guy’s point-of-view). I do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy: I have been dating a man I met on for about 6 weeks – we go out regularly and he is always quick to make plans with me.
They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.Dear Amy: While I could write a novel on how I feel, I will keep this short and sweet. Before you say “go younger,” let me say that the “new age” or “modern woman” does nothing for me. He was not satisfied with the efforts I put in to celebrating his birthday. My problem is that women in my dating range have been married and had multiple kids and have let their bodies go to waste.