I was granted a full array of priveleges, such as going over to help them get ready for formal dances, or coordinating the publicity for their various elections.
They effortlessly reeled in all the hottest guys and made them boyfriends. Well, for one thing, in that era guys derived social status from being able to attract and keep a hot girlfriend.
In New York, I’d been feisty and outspoken, confident in my smarts and my Irish looks.
When I got to LA I realized right away that things were not going to go so well for me there.
Not intimidation necessarily, but a conviction that they’re just not in her league. They need to try to initiate things, make eye contact with guys that they like.
Beautiful women, expecting to have a high mating value, find themselves targeted by only the most sexually aggressive men.
A client of mine used to be a fashion model in New York.
She’s smart and she has been around long enough to know it’s her looks that guys are interested in, and she won’t put up with it.”“Remember in school when the quarterback got the prettiest girl?
And relationships also have economics- the more attractive the women is the more resources a guy needs to get the girl- a fancy car, nice house, good job, or at least that how it works in a guys head.
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Where I was short and curvy, with dark hair, the ideal California girl was…well, you know exactly who she was. In the end, guys didn’t like me much in high school, but the girls did.